Stuff to do while you wait for a guy to message you
Clean your car
Clean your house
Donate old clothes
Yard work
Sell stuff on eBay/Etsy/Amazon
Learn to cook. Ask friends over and feed them.
Learn about investing.
Read a book. Write a book.
Go for a walk.
Check in on a neighbor.
Call your grandparents if you are lucky enough to have living ones.
Make female friends.
Go to group events on meetup.com
Start a group. Find your tribe.
Go dancing.
Make more girl-friends.
Make some platonic guy friends.
Take up archery.
Take up photography.
Start a business. Become a brand. Build an empire.
Then, when he finally calls and asks how you are, say, I’m great. Been really busy. You?